Let's Have A Conversation

Engaging conversation starters to bring you and your date closer. Enter your shared code to begin.

How it works

  • Use the shared code Alto Matchmaking sent to both of you in advance. Entering the same code on both devices keeps your questions in the same order.
  • Agree on a level together before you begin — three to choose from: lighter, deeper, then the real stuff. Pick the one you both feel ready for.
  • Take turns. Read each card aloud and let the answer breathe before moving on.
  • After a few questions, a fourth level — Just between us — quietly unlocks. It's a little more charged, opens only when you both agree, and any question there can be skipped.
  • Pour a glass of wine, settle in, and enjoy. There's no timer, no winner, no record kept.